What if you have spoken careless words over them, then what? The first thing is for you to recognize that you have spoken them and ask God to forgive you. Second, ask your child to forgive you for hurting them. Third, pray over them breaking the power of every word and every weapon formed against them and break their power over them. Next, ask God to heal their spirit and soul, to pour in the love of the Father to fill every void. Finally, speak a blessing over your child. Tell them you love them, believe in them and that they can do all things through Christ who strengthens them.
You need to be your child's greats advocate. Don't be afraid to be lavish with your words and blessing. Speak to their destiny, calling, gifts and talents. Tell them daily that you love them. Constant repetition will reinforce their belief in it!
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