If you never deal with the traumas in your life you will not come into the freedom that God has for you. And so it is with your children too. Have this knowledge works greatly to our advantage. You can ask the Holy Spirit to heal you and your children. Jesus came that we might have life and that more abundantly. He sets the captives free and heals the broken hearted.
I got set free of this trauma in my life. God healed the memories and set me free from the spirit of fear. I can truly say I can ride in a car without being tense, braking or backseat driving! I can even go to sleep as long as I am not the driver! These are not the only traumatic situations I have had in my life believe me! But I know God heals them all. My first pregnancy was twins and the birth process was a trauma. As a result of this trauma I said they were the alpha and omega, the beginning and the end. I never wanted to go through a pregnancy, labor and post-birth experience like that again and I said so. Oh, watch those words, ‘I will never do that again’! To think of missing out on the two beautiful children I had after the first two beauties is inconceivable now. But God healed me and I had a desire to have more children.