
Keeping a right perspective on life isn’t easy. We get too serious over issues that are fleeting in the grand scheme of things. Recently friends of ours were shaken by the news of their son breaking his neck playing a sport. When tragedy strikes you, life perspective changes. Suddenly the issues like picking up your socks off the floor become non-issues in life and death situations. The value of the person who is suffering rises to the forefront. You think differently and sometimes remorsefully about the way you have acted towards them.
I experienced the impact of losing perspective in a relationship when the man I was snipping about suddenly died of a heart attack at 41. Wow! That shook me! Here we had been arguing about semantics and it had separated us and had broken our relationship. Then he was dead. He left a wife and 3 children from 8 to 14 years of age. What a waste on my part! Stupid words that seemed so important now seemed totally petty in light of his passing.
Tragedy flips your world upside down. What is really of value hurdles to confront us all. Our perspective changes in response.
So, can our perspective be recalibrated without tragedy? Can we shift our outlook on life? Can we recognise when we have gone back to non-issues or will we wallow in them until something tragic comes near our home?
I think we can. It means looking at our values, deciding what is really important to us and laying the other irrelevant issues aside.
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